Free yourself from 'shoulds' and unnecessary obligations.
Living your life according to mental 'shoulds' rather than your own inner guidance can be a great obstacle to your happiness and inner peace. Another big obstacle can be constantly filling your schedule with plans and obligations.
When you are constantly obligated to be here, do that, call him/her, etc., you are not free to follow your own flow. You become a slave to obligation. Learn to use these key words that will give you more freedom to follow YOUR flow - "No", "Maybe", "Possibly", "Potentially", "We'll see", "Maybe Some Other Time", "No Thank You", "I'll Let You Know", etc.....
Before making a commitment to someone, take a moment and check in with your inner guidance. Is this choice in alignment with YOUR highest path? If not, say no. 'They' will get over it, and if they don't, that's their issue, not yours....
Honor yourself and the entire Universe will honor you also!
Health, Wealth and Love!
Ryan Pearson
Inspirational Mentor
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